“Carlos why are you so cool, why cant there be more people in the world like you?”
Someone told me that the other day and i said “haha im not cool and i guess because nobody wants to strive to be a better person”
Let me just start by saying that this is my opinion and that you’re entitled to yours.
I honestly think the reason why guys are not what they used to be is simply because they don’t want to be. (the same goes for girls)
- It is not impossible to stay faithful to one person.
- it is not impossible to have a good time without beer and hooking up.
- it is not impossible to save money and take care of your responsibilities.
- it is not impossible to speak properly around a lady.
I can keep that list going on and on but at the end of the day it comes down to an individual choosing to be one way over the other.
This may seem obvious to everyone but the more i think about it the more it upsets me. Im not upset that these things happen im upset that the same people that wish they could be better are the same people choosing not to be.
Next time someone treats you kindly remember that they also had the option to treat you like crap (which seems to be the trend now) and decided not to. Next time you say “man i wish i could be like that person” remember that you totally could. Next time “next time” comes around please choose to be a better person.